Overcoming Disagreements: Embracing the DARE Decision-Making Framework
Disagreements and debates are not just acceptable; they're necessary for innovation and progress. However, without a clear decision-making process, organizations can become stagnant.
Disagreements are an inevitable part of any collaborative effort, especially in the business world. It's perfectly acceptable—even healthy—to disagree. Without differing opinions, innovation and discovery would stall. However, it's crucial that these disagreements are handled with respect. Being disrespectful, rude, or resorting to bullying is entirely unacceptable. We need to maintain mutual respect to facilitate intelligent and productive discussions.
In a company, it's essential to have a clear process for resolving disagreements and making decisions to keep moving forward. Relying on a committee approach often leads to indecision and a lack of clear direction. I've rarely seen this method yield effective results. Instead, appointing an individual who can make the final call—a decisive leader—proves far more effective.
The Importance of a Decisive Leader
When a decision needs to be made, the first step is to determine who has the authority to make that final call. This person, aware of their responsibility, can then seek guidance, counsel, and input from others. It's perfectly acceptable—and even encouraged—for them to be influenced by the insights of their team. However, at the end of the day, a decision must be made, and everyone needs to get behind it.
Even if some team members disagree with the decision, it's vital for the health of the organization that they support it. I've seen firsthand how a lack of alignment can hinder progress and even harm organizations. Conversely, when team members can say, "I don't agree with this for these reasons, but I recognize it's your call and I 100% support your decision," real growth and success become achievable.
Introducing the DARE Framework
Many of us are familiar with the RACI model (Responsible, Accountable, Consulted, Informed) used in project management. While RACI is effective for delineating responsibilities during implementation, I've found that it doesn't quite fit when it comes to the decision-making process itself.
Recently, I came across a framework called DARE, which stands for Deciders, Advisers, Recommenders, and Execution Stakeholders. I believe this model more closely aligns with effective decision-making practices within organizations.
Deciders
The Deciders are the individuals who make the final decision. The responsibility rests on their shoulders, and everyone knows who is making the call. These are typically executives and leaders within the organization. The buck stops with them.
Advisers
Advisers provide opinions and guidance to the Decider. They offer insights and attempt to influence the decision based on their expertise. Their role is crucial in presenting different perspectives and considerations that the Decider might not have initially contemplated.
Recommenders
The Recommenders conduct analysis, weigh the pros and cons, and gather necessary information to inform the decision. They dive deep into research and data collection. If they do a poor or incomplete job, it can negatively impact the outcome, highlighting the importance of thoroughness in their role.
Execution Stakeholders
Finally, the Execution Stakeholders are responsible for carrying out the decision. They might also serve as Advisers or Recommenders, but ultimately, they are the ones who have to implement what has been decided. Their buy-in is essential for successful execution.
I find that the DARE framework better encapsulates the nuances of effective decision-making. It ensures clarity about who is responsible for what, fosters collaboration, and leads to more decisive and supported outcomes. It shows why RACI, while useful for project management, might not be the best fit for the decision-making process itself.
Conclusion
Disagreements and debates are not just acceptable; they're necessary for innovation and progress. However, without a clear decision-making process, organizations can become stagnant. By embracing frameworks like DARE, businesses can navigate disagreements effectively, make informed decisions, and ensure that everyone is aligned moving forward.
What do you think of the DARE framework? Have you heard of it before? Is there another approach you use to make decisions successfully? I'd love to hear your thoughts.

